King of The Arcane Kingdom.
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King vegeta II |
Women, do you seek older men? |
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Never ever go for men younger than yourself? Is so how young or how old?
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King of The Arcane Kingdom. |
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Asiana |
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Yeah, that is the ONE thing that I probably would only seek out. I don't seek race, but age, experience, and wisdom is attractive to me, so is salt-n-pepper hair.
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foldgirl |
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Well, I never really know how to answer questions like this...I mean, give a remotely concrete answer. I don't really know (I don't have experience dating older men or younger men). I guess there would be the allure of older men being wiser and more experienced, but then again, they may be more set in their ways and maybe I wouldn't be able to cope well with that. Who knows, until I find myself in a situation like that.
I mean, by my experiences and interactions with people, I'd say younger and older men generally have different social perspectives when it comes to certain issues and different ways of dealing with situations, but at the same time, I am always learning and gaining more wisdom and I'd like to think that older people are also (and there are a lot of things older people learn through interactions with younger people). There are plenty of young and old men who have either amazed me or brushed me the wrong way. But I would never filter potential mates out that way (by age). I guess on the lower end, I wouldn't want it to be illegal nor would I ever get involved with someone to whom I was an authority figure or mentor, and on the higher end, no one too, too old (like a senior...I don't think I could deal with that...I want to spend a good amount of my life with my one spouse). When things happen, they just happen. |
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King vegeta II |
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Yeahhh.
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Asiana |
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When I was 24, I had this huge crush on a 43 year old man.
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IgotitallJp |
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What makes you guys attracted to older men?
Daijoubudayo. Hountoni. You'll be aight.
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Nihonchan |
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If a guy should be older than me, the max I'd date is 26 (I'm 23). I always say that I don't have a father and I don't need one now. I always view older boyfriends to be father-like and they say that women who are attracted to older men have an urge to fulfil some sort of father-daughter relationship they didn't have as a child. I'm not talking from experience, just books. I've never had a bf more than 1 year older than myself. My friend likes older men though, sometimes its just scary.
And I certainly don't associate age with wisdom. The only thing that may attract me to an older man is that he'd probably be more settled in his life than a younger man and if I'm a kind of person whose seeking financial security (and I'm not) then an older professional man would be more appealing, I guess. Other than that when I think older man, I think hair in the wrong places and impotence. |
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Asiana |
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I don't feel it's fatherly when you date an older man. My dad is 35 years older than me, not 18.
My husband is 6 and a half years older than me. When we met, it was a big issue, because I was 4 months shy of being 18 and he was 24 and a half. It seemed very wrong, but my parents couldn't stop it...as we kept saying, "We're just friends." Now, I'm almost 28 and he's 34, and nobody has issues with it...people think we're considered peers now. Sometimes, he says things that are before my time...I don't recall some of the cartoons he mentions, and some of the songs I know, came out when he was a kid, but I hear them on old school slow jam nights on the radio. ----------
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ggblue |
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King Veggie,
Well, it seems that I'm in a 'catch 22' situation. Plus, I've found that age doesn't always equal maturity, so the fascination with older, more mature men doesn't have much bearing on my relationships anymore. Nowadays, I'd consider someone 5 years younger and probably 10 years older. If I go beyond 10 years, than certain health factors will play or begin to play a big factor in the relationship. I can't write anymore--you'll have to ask your mom what that means. |
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BlkDrgn06 |
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My philosophy.......it's quite simple, really:
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ggblue |
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Quote: It may be true, except when it comes to a woman's fertility clock. Tick...tock..tick...tock... |
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BlkDrgn06 |
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Quote: True, but I like to look at that in a different way......that's just the beat that keeps the rhythm flowin'! |
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ggblue |
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BlkDrgn06,
I left the TV on last night while doing chores and I partially watched the Cheaters Show. So ladies beware. Age is more than a number....he'd better possess maturity, fidelity and a J.O.B.! |
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BlkDrgn06 |
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Oh wow! I didn't know you saw that episode!!! That was MY a$$!!!
Why you got to bring up the past?? Why you got to pour salt and lemon juice on an OLD wound??? ROTFLMAO J/K No, but seriously.......there are young bucks out there who DO have that kind of mentality. I agree with ggblue on this, ladies......PLEASE WATCH OUT!!! |
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Asiana |
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Age ain't nothing but a number?
17 will get you 20 where I'm from... ----------
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nmffnurse29 |
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Ugh no. I want to throw up whenever I see a twentysomething woman on the arms of a 50 year old. Ugh. Ugh Ugh.
Especially riles me up when it's an asian woman with a old white geezer. First thing I think-mail order bride. In the past I prefered my men a few years younger than me...maybe 3 years younger and only 6 years older. Anything below or above that...no chance in hell! |
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Maman1 |
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Also posted elsewhere online
I had this strange meeting with this new acquaintance on the MTA who lived near my doctor, dentist and hospital. Again, I will not likely cross the colour line at my age. I admit that a man that cooks like Martin Yan attracts me, in addition to his other attributes. Anyway, Mr. L is a dashing Anglo-Black-Indian (both Amerinidan and East Indian). His late father was the multiracial Guyanese parent. His late mother was Hindu from Uttar Pradesh, India. Peace Be Upon Them! He came over to introduce himself as we got off at the same stop for my appointment. I was flabbergasted that he was in his 60's, despite his solid white hair. He looks 40-ish like me! Although he has vivid memories of his late maternal grandfather (PBUH) practising Sanatana Dharma (proper term for Hinduism), somehow he not only was raised Christian and Catholic like his father, but now he has converted to a Jehovah's Witness with no connection to his Eastern religious heritage. I am more connected to it than him, in the sense that although I am Catholic by identity and heritage, I also chant the Hindu/Buddhist "Om Mani Padme Hum" (world peace) and "Om Shanti" (general and personal peace) for the good energy emanting from them. I admire his religious zeal that is not so fervent that he disregards others, but I have a problem with his disregard for that 50% of his parental ancestry that is absolutely Hindu. There won't be a love connection here for many reasons, including that he has two 40-something children like me, so what the end with Mrs. L was has me curious, but not needing to know since I am not a contender. I learned the hard way with AJA that a couple with too diverse spiritual views do not make a good match. |
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